travel is about people as well as places
The second part of my month in Sri Lanka turned out to be very different from the first, being based much more on the people I met than on any sights. Yes I wandered around Colombo, seeing monuments, museums, mosques, temples, churches, lighthouses and old architecture, and I visited the fort and a couple of temples in Jaffna, but it was all about the people. This started when I checked into my hostel in Jaffna, after a night on the train. One of my room-mates was a Sri Lankan lady who’d spent most of her life living in London, but who was currently visiting ‘home’ to help get over a few relationship problems. She offered to guide me around the city for the day, but clearly did this so that we could continue the conversation we’d started in the dorm. She went into considerable detail about her woes, and asked me some quite direct relevant questions – for example she wanted to know when I last had sex, as she hadn’t wanted to be celibate after her relationships en...